YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE ~DON'T LET ANYBODY PUT YOU DOWN

 

 

This phrase came through to me today as I was talking to myself, yeah sometimes I talk to myself because I am the only one that can understand me...lol!

My cat is here. I was telling him the truth, but now I have decided to write because I have a point.

The point is that no matter where we go in life, sometimes we forget how valuable we are and let others give opinions about us, and we listen...and listen...and listen. Especially about the opinions which we didn't ask, but the "vision" they have of us makes a wound in our heart.

I have learned throughout the years that what others' opinions about my persona are, it's not important, unless I request it, to say: What do you think this dress looks like on me?. Opinion that I won't take anyway because I am in love with that dress, and I will buy it regardless, because I like it. So there.

 

Going back to the "usual opinion that we don't ask", and some have an idea of who we are...do they really know?  

Do they know how much we have gone through in life to have an opinion? And not a good one, of course. No, nobody knows how much we have/had to go through, how dare they say who I am...

But...we are polite, right? The point here is not to take that to heart. Let go and smile, just think how much you have achieved in life without anyone's help. And you are a good person, no perfection is required just to please others.

 

As long as you are a good, caring, polite, respectful, loving person...not to please others, but to walk with your chin up saying I am a valuable human being, I know what I went through to get where I am today, and I am proud of that. No one can question what you feel and know you are.

You know...so let the words of others that do not agree with you, go " under the bridge" and smile...smile and smile...feeling it, not a fake smile. Smile with your heart, that's where pure love is, the one you can give yourself, no matter what.

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Aglaḯa

 

 

image credit: Sasha Fantom